How did the week go? I am more than curious if you tried out any of my advice last week, and tried out some Ben Wa Balls or went anal (or all of the above, my daring one). This week we are all about vibration i.e. automated sex toys. These are the toys that have an internal vibration which is how they bring pleasure.
Vibration heroes
Vibrators are the MVP’s of the toys list in my opinion. They are automated toys that vibrate (having an internal motor that allows them to move continuously/buzz) in order to stimulate our vulva. I explicitly say vulva, because vibrators can be used inserted into the vagina or anus but also externally on your clitoris or even your nipples. Even men enjoy the vibration. This is the winner of all sex toys, as this one has the greatest variety of shapes, sizes and types. For example shaped like a penis or a small lipstick.
Clitoral vibrations
How to use this joyous apparatus? Basically in whatever way you want. I will go into one sort of vibrator, which are the vibrators made to stimulate the glans clitoris (see the link if you need a refresher). Remember that the clitoris has 8000 nerve endings? Yeah… Generally these are small toys that aim to please the clitoris very precisely. A shape used used can be a small lipstick. These clitoral toys are called bullets, because of their shapes. They also exist in over the finger caps, and are just very versatile. These are GREAT fun for use while you are using another toy or are in the middle of penetration. By themselves, they aren’t bad at all either!
Now having said that the clitoris has that many nerve endings, remember that your sensitivity may be very high or very low. Thus when looking for clitoral stimulation it’s better to find a toy with a lot of settings, because that means you can start low and work your way up (IF YOU WANT TO).
I picked one shape but we also have the Magic Wand. I reckon one of the most old-school vibrators, but it gets the job done. A special mention goes to the clitoral toys that use suction and air as their brand of vibration. Listen. I have tried everything, but these are my true loves! As usual, lubes are our friends, use them freely!
Dual vibration, dual the fun
Now, the great thing about vibrators as I said is that they come in various types. An important one to mention are the vibrators that you insert for internal vibration AND that have an external vibration thrown in the mix as well. Gifts from the Universe for sure IF it’s your thing (hi, it’s my thing). Both vibration are set separately and they generally have different vibe patterns (buzz, stop, buzz etc).
These toys were made famous by shows like Sex and The City. I always had trouble with the most well known one, the rabbit, because of the clitoral part generally really being shaped like an animal. No, thanks. I am quite particular when it comes to my toy’s design. However, I will admit that these are great. Even better is that you can now find these with the same suction/air technology and does are just… the bees knees. Don’t be startled by your own orgasm. Or the force of it! These toys can stimulate the G-spot and… well, see for yourself. Again, lube it up (and I would suggest both sides). It makes for an amazingly fun time.
There you have it. The vibration heavy toys that you can play around with. I hope you’ll vibe away this week.
